Checking (But Not Making) The List

If there truly is a season for everything, the closer we get to New Year’s Eve, the more likely we are to realize that it’s time to check one more list --- the one that's really final.

Sure enough, as each year nears its end, newspapers will present a passing parade in print of the names and faces of the famous or once-famous who have left this Earth since last Dec. 31.

So it goes that if you read The List, some will be more meaningful than others, depending on where the deceased ranks in your own recognition of them and how they might have figured in your life. What the rest of the world thinks hardly matters.

I've probably known about Dame Joan Sutherland, opera's coloratura soprano who died in October, since my first music class as a kid in school. But among the folks I've known through music who exited life's stage in 2010 -- a list that also includes another legendary singer, Lena Horne, and Alex Chilton, leader of the rock groups The Box Tops and Big Star -- none ranks higher than Clay Cole.

As anyone who was a teenager in the New York area during the 1960s is likely to recall, Clay Cole was a disk jockey who hosted a television program that rivaled Dick Clark's "American Bandstand." Chubby Checker introduced The Twist on one of the shows at Palisades Amusement Park and I first saw the Rolling Stones on TV because of Clay Cole.

In some cases, reading the names of people who died during the year is simply a reminder, while in others, it’s news to us.

When actress Barbara Billingsley’s Oct. 16 death was reported by various media outlets, I quickly heard about the departure of the woman best known as Mrs. June Cleaver, a television housewife on a par with Mrs. Margaret Anderson and Mrs. Donna Stone, portrayed by Jane Wyatt and Donna Reed, respectively, on shows of their own. On “Leave It to Beaver” in the late ‘50s and early ‘60s, Billingsley's Mrs. Cleaver was the mother of The Beaver and the inspiration for transparent Eddie Haskell’s dumb attempts at flattery.

The role gave Barbara Billingsley an enduring measure of fame. In contrast, Johnny Sheffield, who had played Tarzan’s adopted son Boy in the 1940s movies starring Johnny Weissmuller and later starred in his own series of motion pictures as Bomba the Jungle Boy, died the day before Billingsley, yet I didn’t learn of it until today, in reading a recap of this year’s passings.

But at least he made The List.

As for me, I think I'll stick with my sufficient obscurity to ensure a sort of immortality. By not qualifying for The List, I can live on, content in knowing I'll never be on it.